7 Japanese techniques to stop over-thinking

Uday PB
3 min readJan 27, 2024

Ever feel like your mind’s a monsoon of thoughts, swirling, swirling, and never letting you find your umbrella? You’re not alone, my friends. Overthinking, that pesky gremlin, loves to nestle in our heads, turning chai breaks into existential crises. But fear not, fellow chai-lovers! Across the ocean, the wise folks of Japan have brewed up a whole tea kettle of techniques to tame the mental monsoon. So, let’s ditch the overthinking rainclouds and embrace the sunshine with these seven gems:

Ikigai

This ain’t just a fancy word for “hobby.” It’s about finding your “reason for being,” the sweet spot where passion meets purpose.

Imagine waking up each day excited to chase that butterfly, not just paying bills. That’s ikigai, my friend, and it’s the antidote to aimless overthinking.

Kaizen

Stop thinking about “one big change” and embrace the “small steps” mantra.

Kaizen whispers, “Improve something, anything, every day,” like adding a new spice to your chai or learning a new Hindi phrase. These tiny victories chip away at the overthinking mountain, leaving you feeling like a mighty Everest climber.

Shoshin

Ever heard of “beginner’s mind”? Shoshin is that, a fresh, curious approach to everything. Ditch the “know-it-all” baggage and see the world like a child again. Every sunrise, every raindrop, every sip of chai becomes an adventure, leaving no room for the overthinking blues.

Hats Hachi Bu

This one’s about leaving things “80% done.” Perfectionism is a monsoon’s best friend, so let go of the need to control every detail. Embrace the beauty of the “almost-there,” the “make-shift” attitude.

It’s liberating, like dancing in the rain without an umbrella, and the overthinking clouds can’t keep up.

Shinrin-yoku

Time for a forest bath! Shinrin-yoku is the art of soaking in the woods, breathing in the earthy aroma, and letting nature’s symphony drown out the mental chatter.

It’s like a spa treatment for the soul, washing away the overthinking grime and leaving you feeling refreshed and grounded.

Wabi-sabi

Embrace the imperfections, the cracks in the cup, the wrinkles on your face. Wabi-sabi whispers that beauty lies in the flaws, the impermanence.

So, let go of the “should-be’s” and appreciate the “is-ness.” Overthinking hates this kind of acceptance, it wilts like a flower in the desert.

Ganbaru

This one’s not just about “working hard,” it’s about finding the perseverance, the grit, the “never-give-up” spirit.

When the overthinking monsoon hits, ganbaru reminds you to put on your raincoat, grab your umbrella, and keep walking. It’s the fuel that keeps you moving forward, even when the path is blurry.

So, there you have it, my friends—seven Japanese secrets to silence the mental monsoon and find your inner sunshine. Remember, overthinking is just a passing storm, and with these techniques, you’ll be sipping chai tea on a rainbow bridge in no time.

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Uday PB

Above the ground today, below the ground tomorrow. Psychology, philosophy, and maybe code - my trifecta, follow for musings on such topics.